I Thought They Weren’t Allowed To Say That? “Never Assume” that your former employer won’t speak negatively of you – Actual Quotes From Former Employers Part 2

In our last post we talked about how it can be a mistake to assume that your former employer will stick to company policy and only confirm your job title and dates of employment.

While it’s true that many companies do have reference policies in place that prohibit them from giving out anything but limited, prescribed information, many do not, says Allison & Taylor Reference Checking. Additionally, even companies with reference policies in place cannot ensure that their employees will necessarily abide by such rules. As a consequence, while countless job hunters feel secure in the idea that a former employer will only provide their position title and dates of employment, there’s a very good chance that former employers may offer considerably more than this – including unfavorable commentary that may ensure you’re not hired again anytime soon.

Here are some more actual examples of reference responses documented by Allison & Taylor:

Regarding Eligibility for re-hire: Is this person eligible for re-hire?

  • “He is not. I’m really not supposed to say much but he was unreliable and sick at lot.”
  • “No, but I can’t say why.”
  • “No, it was the departure – kind of burned his bridges when he left.”
  • “No, she stole from the company. We have an investigation pending.”

When asked about the reason for employment separation: Could you fully describe the circumstances and reason for the separation?

  • “She was fired.”
  • “She was let go – she didn’t do her part as expected.”
  • “I fired him! He and his buddy had some illegal things going.”
  • “It was a rather delicate and awkward situation. You should call her other past employers. I made the mistake of not doing that.”

Responses to questions about performance: References are asked to rank skills on a scale from 1(inadequate) to 5 (outstanding):

  • Oral Communications: “Can I give a negative number … -1”?
  • Financial Skills: “Well, that’s why our company had a major layoff – left her in charge of finances!”
  • Written Communications: “You mean when she finally turned in the reports due a week earlier??”
  • Technical Skills: “Is zero in your rating scale?”
  • Interpersonal Relations: “He had a problem with a few of the people. I should have ended the relationship just after he started.”
  • Productivity: “Is there a rating less than inadequate?
  • Employee Relations: “There was a lot of he said/ she said happening with other employees. And other than her leaving, nothing else has changed. We haven’t had any problems since then, so we know she was the source of the problem.”
  • Decision Making: “He couldn’t make a decision if his life depended on it!”
  • Leadership: “He had no leadership skills.”
  • Crisis Management: “He [fireman] totally ignored the emergency call when it came in. He said he didn’t hear it!”
  • Short Term Planning: “Lousy – I can’t remember something that was completed on time!”
  • Personal Integrity: “I don’t think she had any integrity.”
  • Long Term Planning: “He wasn’t here long enough to rate him.”
  • Overall Performance: “Inadequate would be a positive word for him!”
  • Managerial Skills: “He couldn’t manage a group of children!”

It is not uncommon to contact a reference and find them hesitant, evasive or annoyed by the call. Sometimes tone of voice and inflection speak volumes- many express anger, shock, unhappiness or disbelief that they have been called regarding the employee.

We are calling you as a reference regarding (the candidate).

  • “I do not care to comment at all. I let him go and that’s all I care to say!”
  • “Are you certain he gave you my name?”
  • “Hold on, let me get the legal file to see what I am allowed to say”
  • “I’m surprised she even listed us on her work history.”

Allison & Taylor estimates that 50% of their references come back as “lukewarm” or “negative”. In view of the critical employment stakes involved, consider having a simple reference check conducted that will tell you definitively whether or not a reference is providing a positive, professional response to inquiries made about you. If they are not, you can take proactive steps to prevent this continued spread of negative information, either through a Cease & Desist letter or through more aggressive legal recourse.

To find out more about reference checking, please visit Allison & Taylor.